Family bonds are the most important source of strength and security for children. But all relationships can become strained. The systemic therapist can help by meeting with families to talk about how they can respond to challenging situations. This is important because families often feel wary of talking about topics that are difficult for them. The systemic therapist can help families to approach difficult these topics safely. She will listen and learn about the unique strengths of each family member and help families to find the way forward that is best for them and healthy for their child’s development.
Systemic therapists work with many different types of combination of family members. A family therapy session will usually last about an hour working with issues including –
- ADHD, Autistic Spectrum Disorders or other conditions
- Emotional or behavioural issues
- Difficulties in relation to school (though sometimes an educational psychologist will be more appropriate)
- Separation, illness, bereavement
- Relationships
- Identity
- Mediation: though I work therapeutically with children, teenagers and families, my mediation work is specifically about adult relationships unrelated to children. Separating/divorcing families should seek the help of a mediator accredited with the Family Mediation Council. Such mediators will commence with a MIAM – important if you may later want to take your case to family court.
How to book
I work at The Family Treatment Service in Wimbledon, London SW19. You’re very welcome to get in touch with me directly – I’d be glad to have a chat and guide you through the options.
Dr Naomi Elton 